Last night after dinner, Ivy and I drove out of town to spend the night near the surgery center. I had a nice time being alone with my daughter, eating veggies and hummus, watching HGTV in a big, soft, king-sized bed. Ivy had a peaceful spirit about her last night and wasn't too concerned about the upcoming surgery. I thought about all that must be going through her mind as I lay there listening to her nose "whistle" the steady rhythm of her breathing.
We both woke up bright and early, ready for the day ahead of us. (Note of caution not to go any further if you don't want to see her cleft stitches.) We arrived at the center and didn't have to wait too long to be called back to pre-op. In the meantime, I drank two cups of coffee, and Ivy played games on my phone.
All smiles for a very short bit.
Excuse the strange look on my face. I look like some sort of feline ready to attack.
I was allowed to walk back with Ivy to the operating room. I helped her climb on the warm bed and held her hands while they readied her for the surgery. She was being very brave as I held the mask over her tiny tear-streaked face. In a matter of minutes she was asleep. I kissed her good-bye and got out of that strange get-up to wait for over 2 hours, playing Words With Friend, Candy Crush, and Flow. I drank 2 cups of tea and ate a candy bar that someone else bought for me because I had no single bills for the vending machine.
Dr. G. finally came out to tell me all went well. He moved her septum to the left a bit, removed some scar tissue, lined up her pinks, rounded out her left nostril (which is still smaller than her right one anyway), and fixed a tiny hole that made that lovely whistling noise I heard all night long. She was quite sad when I went back to see her. She has a whole lot of swelling. And, as with most cleft surgeries, a constant slow drip of blood continues from her nostrils. She had the same thing in 2010 when she had her bone graft. But, she has done remarkably well.
We drove home without any issues. Ivy ate some crackers and drank some soda.
We were both glad to be home. I think she is such a brave young lady. Next week we get the stitches out, and I can't wait for the swelling to go down so we can see the results much better. Thank you all so much for your prayers.
I came home to these goofy girls who had not even brushed their hair today. All they did was play. What a life.
Welcome to my family blog. I have been married to Mike for over half of my life. I love my Savior, Jesus. I am a stay-at-home, homeschooling mom to six terrific, interesting children. My 3 oldest were born to me in my younger years, while my 3 youngest were given to me by God in my older years. I am very blessed. ~Cheri
12.11.2012
12.10.2012
A New Ivy
When I looked at Ivy's medical file back in 2009, I was unfamiliar with cleft. Her file did not mention anything about her palate, so I was thinking she was only lip affected, but preparing for the cleft, too. This was the picture we saw of her.
It looks so minor to me right now, but back in 2009, I wondered how to care for a cleft. I, personally, had oral aversion issues and couldn't stand the thought of looking into anyone's mouth, let alone a cleft affected child's mouth. Despite my issues, we sent our paperwork in to China to adopt this little girl.
Once in China, I found out that Ivy did not have a cleft palate, but rather a cleft in her gum line, which affected her teeth and nose. In December 2010, Ivy had a bone graft to fill in her cleft. Tomorrow morning, she will have her lip and nose revision. We're all excited about her new look!
The surgeon will lift up her left nostril and line up the pinks of her lip from her surgery scar when she was a baby. Pray for peace for Ivy. She knows what is going on. I'm sure there is much anticipation.
It looks so minor to me right now, but back in 2009, I wondered how to care for a cleft. I, personally, had oral aversion issues and couldn't stand the thought of looking into anyone's mouth, let alone a cleft affected child's mouth. Despite my issues, we sent our paperwork in to China to adopt this little girl.
Once in China, I found out that Ivy did not have a cleft palate, but rather a cleft in her gum line, which affected her teeth and nose. In December 2010, Ivy had a bone graft to fill in her cleft. Tomorrow morning, she will have her lip and nose revision. We're all excited about her new look!
The surgeon will lift up her left nostril and line up the pinks of her lip from her surgery scar when she was a baby. Pray for peace for Ivy. She knows what is going on. I'm sure there is much anticipation.
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Ivy
12.09.2012
Should Have Seen It Coming
No pun intended in the title, of course. But, Jack had just been for an eye exam a year and a half ago. So, I was surprised when Jack would say he could not read the license plate on the car in front of us or a road sign until we were right upon it. He had no problem with seeing his school work or playing soccer.
So, I decided to get him checked anyway (especially since his daddy can't see a thing without his contacts). Apparently, Jack's eyesight is 4 times worse than his last visit, which was so minor I was not even told about it. Apparently, puberty affects eye sight. Who knew?
Jack told me he wasn't going to wear his glasses in public. He was wrong. We went out for Mexican food the other night, and he wore them.
He is a stickler for the serious look. Jack gets mad at me if I try to make him smile ;o)
He said to me, "What do you need a picture of me for? The blog?" Why, of course! Everyone needs to see how handsome he is getting. Yikes! He looks like Seth! I like Jack a lot. He's weird, but I still like him a whole lot.
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Jack
12.08.2012
Playtime In the Woods
When I was a little girl, I loved being in the woods playing make-believe. I would "set up house" around a tree and have sections marked off by sticks or rocks. I could spend hours at a time pretending. Seth and Jordan were great pretenders, too. They could also sit for hours designing Lego houses. They'd never actually play "house", but was always designing. So, I was quite delighted when my girls started escaping to their secret place, secret password included. Eva begged me to come visit, so this morning, I did. Joy led the way.
And she was quite pleased with having me in their "home".
I'm not sure what this contraption is. Ivy just informed me it is her pantry and stove.
Their place to put "things".
There were rocks to climb on...
...a trampoline to bounce on...
...vines to swing on...
...paths to walk on...
...all within sight of home.
And, I can see and hear them while they play. Seth would be proud of his sisters in the woods.
And she was quite pleased with having me in their "home".
I'm not sure what this contraption is. Ivy just informed me it is her pantry and stove.
Their place to put "things".
There were rocks to climb on...
...a trampoline to bounce on...
...vines to swing on...
...paths to walk on...
...all within sight of home.
And, I can see and hear them while they play. Seth would be proud of his sisters in the woods.
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family life,
Ivy,
Joy
12.07.2012
Lessons From A Six Year Old
"Never, ever blow in a dog's face," says Joy. Because if you do, even if it is a cute face like this one...
...this can happen.
It's just a tiny but deep slash above her lip. But, I think it is a lesson learned for Joy. The exact thing happened to Jack when he was three years old, messing with sleeping dog, Millie. Except, Jack got nipped on the eye lid. It could have been much worse.
Look at those jowls. They are amazingly large, don't you think? You could hide things in there.
...this can happen.
It's just a tiny but deep slash above her lip. But, I think it is a lesson learned for Joy. The exact thing happened to Jack when he was three years old, messing with sleeping dog, Millie. Except, Jack got nipped on the eye lid. It could have been much worse.
Look at those jowls. They are amazingly large, don't you think? You could hide things in there.
12.01.2012
Sickness Time
We've had a run of sickness at our house. It started off shortly before Thanksgiving with Joy getting a terrible cold. Eva then became ill. Thanksgiving night, I got a sore throat. It made its rounds with everyone in our house. Fortunately, Seth and Mike left on Sunday, but Mike came home Wednesday evening with the sickness. Nine days later, we are all on the mend, although I am still sick. I just don't feel as badly. I'm hoarse, stuffy nosed, with a cough. Eva told me I sound like Phyllis Diller. If you know who she is, you know I'm in bad shape. Actually, Eva didn't say Phyllis Diller. She just told me I sounded like the Ant in A Bug's Life, who is the old lady.
So, we decided to tackle the Christmas decorations today. It took us over 2 hours without Jordan's help this year. I sure miss her!!! Not only did I have to decorate the tree, I'll have to bake all those cookies!! I'm sure there won't be as many, and they won't be as good. Somehow they always taste better when someone else makes them.
The finished product, Christmas Tree 2012.
By the time Ivy and I finished decorating the tree, the rest of the decorators decided they needed a break.
Ivy and Jack were only hit slightly with the big sickness. I heard only a couple days worth of sniffles and coughs from them.
So, we decided to tackle the Christmas decorations today. It took us over 2 hours without Jordan's help this year. I sure miss her!!! Not only did I have to decorate the tree, I'll have to bake all those cookies!! I'm sure there won't be as many, and they won't be as good. Somehow they always taste better when someone else makes them.
The finished product, Christmas Tree 2012.
By the time Ivy and I finished decorating the tree, the rest of the decorators decided they needed a break.
Ivy and Jack were only hit slightly with the big sickness. I heard only a couple days worth of sniffles and coughs from them.
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